Saturday 1 June 2013

First time chat with girls is not so tough!!

By Rupert Meighen


Men, who are believed to be the mightiest in the Human race, are not always strong in every aspect. Especially when it comes to initiating a chat with girls, most men are weak in nature. Usually men don't admit themselves to this fact; although they know the fact that all men are alike in this particular task in their life. But if you think whether starting a first time chat with girls is a rocket science? Yes, it is. But even Rocket science can be mastered if you know the basics and concepts, then why not this so called tougher task. So if you want to break this ice, you got to keep 3 basic things in your mind. If you can train your mind to adhere to these rules, then you are the master.

First things first, never act too confident since that is a major turn-off for girls. If you do want to be rejected even if you have not started anything yet, then better keep your over confident self first. As a first step on how to start a conversation with a girl, try thinking of an indirect opener. This technique of how to start a conversation with a girl you like is something that would not give the girl a sign that you are about to throw pick-up lines, which for some is really an irritating thing actually. The best way for you to do this technique is to start a topic that is girl friendly, something that will make them interested easily, and they could relate to like about relationships.

The second tip on to start a conversation with a girl is by starting with direct conversations or opener. This technique can be applied by guys who are confident-but not too over confident-and is not afraid to be rejected since this is a technique which will allow the guy to start by saying directly what he wants. The good thing about this technique is that the girl will immediately know the intention of the guy. The thing is, there is also a higher risk with applying this, but in the end, if both of you are in the same page, the risk that you have taken will still be worth in the end. As what the saying goes, "with great risks also comes a great reward."

Another best way to start a conversation with a girl is to start with a situational conversation in which the means that you would use is laughter. For an instance, when a girl accidentally cuts line in front of you. This is not only an effective way on how to start a conversation with a girl, it also gives both of you a fun way on knowing each other mixed with a friendly yet flirtatious vibes. When it comes on how to start a text conversation with a girl, the first thing that you need to consider and know before you even start texting her is to know whether she is busy. Then text the girl for once and wait until she texted back. Then the rest will just take place.

Lastly you can try out situational conversations to start up a conversation. This type of conversation gives you ample scope to reveal your humorous side and make use of laughter to bond. In case a girl accidentally cuts the line ahead of you then this gives you a good chance to start a conversation with her. The wait will surely give you a chance to mingle in a friendly way and have mild undertones of flirtations. If you wish to begin a text conversation with a girl, never assume that she is free. You need to check this with her and then proceed with the conversation. It is ideal to send her a text message once and then wait until she replies. This will set the pace for the rest which will surely follow if you make the right moves.

So, what are you waiting for, sugar? Go on... you know the best way to start a conversation with a woman, so go on and talk your way into that adorable girl's heart.




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