Thursday, 2 May 2013

Good Sides Of Reaching Self Realization Actualization Stage

By Alison Wilcox


Self realization actualization refers to a consistent process where one brings out the best in them, the potential in them to climb to the highest ladder economically, socially and spiritually. It is an inner motive that pushes one to achieve and live their dream. It also involves liberating oneself from those customs, habits, fears, roadblocks that hinder any kind of achievement.

The two names; realization and actualization, could have similar definition and it can be hard to get a clear cut in them. Self realization means overcoming the limitations which could have been defined either by society or an individual in attaining their life goals, such as fears, opinions, habits and beliefs. Having the courage to stand against them is the first process to becoming a realized individual.

Individuals, who have become aware of their identity by accepting their weaknesses and strength, are always envied to many in the society. They do emanate admirable characters, which come from within. This is seen in their daily lives through their problem solving skills, relation with other members and high level of understanding.

Deciding to crawl from pleasing-people-shell to doing what you have always wanted and fulfilling the goals is what self-awareness is. A fundamental lie which is common to several of us is that aiming high in terms of goals and dreams in life, is like building castles in the air; or rather living an idealistic kind of life. For one to realize their potential fully, it will take a lot of courage, persistence and daily learning experiences.

Character emanated by individuals who have a low self esteem and also who have not reached this stage in life include violence, getting angry constantly and colliding with a large number of people over mare issues, just to name a few. This means they have not yet identified the real in them. Trying to measure your achievements against those of others is a major character to failures, since everyone have their own capacity to excel with their own routes followed. Therefore having a good self-image about oneself is very crucial.

A driving force towards personal actualization is psychological well being of an individual. This means acceptance by workmates, friends, peers and relatives will improve the general inner and outlook of that individual. In essence the individual, having received love and accommodation from all people, will work extra hard towards their goal, and hence life fulfillment.

Another trait they possess is that they are very flexible, in terms of changing themselves to suit the surrounding they are in. They positively adapt fast to changing times whether it is new invention, new beliefs or knowledge. Simply they are very intelligent that they can smell lies from a distance.

Spend some time alone to evaluate what has been achieved and what awaits you. This is a necessary step to self realization actualization. By doing this you will help correct major steps encountered in the past.




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