Thursday, 15 November 2018

The Strict Procedures Of Halal Dating That Couples Have To Follow

By Anthony Kelly


Dating is a stage where couple will engage in romantic relationships or the stage of getting themselves knows each other better. Both people will meet socially with the aim of getting or assessing each other suitability as a partner to be in an intimate relationship or possibly ending up in a marriage. This is a form of courtship where is consist of social activities done by both parties. They will explore each wants and needs. Islamic communities have valued Halal dating as a means where the couples will avoid getting intimate until they get married.

During a date, an individual must look presentable and at their best. Looks will matter and can leave a strong impression. Unless of course they are in love, then the looks do not matter. But for initial dating, looks will play a major role. Dating will come often will looks and grooming. It will become an initial attraction that would feel for another person.

Depending on what desire a person wants, the motive and wants may change. If a person is just dating to have some fun and enjoyment, then what really matters is all about getting along right from the start. Some people dates because they want to find someone that they can share a lifetime commitment and make a life together.

In the Islam community, when both people have already found that they are perfect for each other, they can continue to the next level. It is called Khitbah in Muslim. The man has to come to the woman house and ask permission from their parents. This way, they can discuss about the marriage.

To learn more about a person, the individual can search through the internet about how they live their life. Many people have posted their daily routines and activities in social media. Websites where they can socialize with others are important to check their background. This will make you have a precise detail about their selves.

An individual does not necessarily have to go into bars and clubs just to get a date. Some people find the dating sites much more accessible and enjoyable than meeting them directly in person. Putting up yourself out there is important. People can easily access the internet for their personal gains or find someone that they feel they match with each other and by checking the forums, classifieds or local events that will attract many people with similar interest and passions.

In Islam, before a believer can marry someone, both parties must know and generalize and emphasize both their feelings. The requirement is that they are not allowed to do intercourse unless they are married. They must go out together with their friends and family members.

Always choose a date that has some excitement on it. Chemistry is important when getting to know each other. Having an exciting activity will build up trust, pleasure and affection. This will also help as a means of starting a conversation.

To have a successful date, always make good impressions about yourself. Both parties must have a good first date that is worth remembering. However, it does not necessarily have to be intercourse but instead they should show they have the potential of having fun and enjoyment.




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