Wednesday, 6 June 2018

Tips With Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Michael Lewis


As people from all walks of life and religions meet one another so the need for interfaith weddings has grown. Jewish Christian interfaith wedding has grown exponentially as couples from these two religions want to get married. It can be a difficult time especially when parents, family and friends expect to have the ceremony either in a Church or Synagogue.

Sometimes a Jew in a partnership will opt to have a Christian wedding and ceremony and this will mean having it in a Church. The problems is that many couples have guests that may take offence and if this is so, it is probably preferable to have it done in court. It can be a challenging time in deciding what is best and it is with this in mind, that one partner will consent to having it in a Synagogue.

Some will even go the extra mile of converting to Judaism. This is a difficult process and one that is not easily achieved but is a route worth considering especially should the couple be thinking about bringing children into this world. Judaism does not look for converts and it is with this in mind that it must be something, a yearning that someone has to do.

A Rabbi can be consulted regarding this although today, it is not uncommon to find an interfaith Rabbi who can officiate the ceremony and have the taste of a Jewish flavor to the proceedings. There are customs that exist in this religion that are carried out during the ceremony. For one, the bride should circle the groom seven times before vows are taken. Apart from this, it is also customary for the groom to break a glass to commemorate the destruction of the temple in Jerusalem many years ago.

Another area to consider before going out there and getting a caterer is that some foods are not allowed to be consumed by Jews. Dietary laws are strict and these include only eating animals that chew the cud and have cloven hooves. They must also be slaughtered in the correct manner by someone that has qualified in doing so.

Others such as shark for instance are not kosher and may not be eaten. Also seafoods such as crabs, lobster and prawns are also a no no and should not be served at all. Some guests may be offended if these are served so it is best to cater for all. It is an aveirah to eat something that is not allowed.

There are many other considerations to consider if one is thinking about converting to any faith. There are many festivals and customs that must be adhered to in order to be considered either a Jew or Christian. Many today are more liberal and will celebrate both religions festivals and incorporate them into their yearly regimen.

It is however a beautiful religion and enjoyed by all those who practice it. This may be an option. If not, it is quite customary today to have a wedding with a Jewish feel.




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