Wednesday, 9 August 2017

Finding Common Grounds With Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Robert Taylor


These forms of ceremonies go be a few different names including but not limited to co-officiated weddings or also mixed weddings they are sometimes called. It is a rare but celebrated opportunity for two families of two completely different backgrounds and faiths can come together and celebrate each other through the union of these two people. By doing a bit of research, you can learn all you need to know to throw a great Jewish Christian interfaith wedding.

There are ways of compromise in which you can select the traditional activities that will be performed at your ceremony. By being strategic about this, you can make the most number of people happy at the event. There are some customs that are held quite dear to the people who practice them, so they must be considered.

When a couple uses a ceremonial Unity Candle, it can be a very touching, moving, symbolic experience for everyone involved. That is why candles are used in so many different faiths, and you will find that this one pleases all. Not only can this candle symbolize these two people coming together, but also the families as well.

It is highly unlikely that anyone at this event will have any problem whatsoever with the part of the marriage known as the announcement. This is simply to formally announce to everybody there the names of those who are to be wed. Since this is pretty common practice in almost all religions, it is quite commonly accepted.

There is usually a part of any ceremony like this where the guests are asked if they support the couple's marriage, often seen in movies where the officiator asks the congregation has any reason why the two should not be wed, and someone will stand up or burst into the chapel and exclaim, "I object!" This is commonly called the assent of the congregation. Even though it is mainly Christians who do this, the other family will relate to how they believe a marriage needs witnesses.

It might not be in a person's strict traditions to speak vows, but most will accept the practice of it. This is because it grew so widely popular in so many countries. This is done in place of speaking in their traditional language and taking more sacred vows.

Anyone who has seen the popular Fiddler on the Roof musical or countless movies that depict the Yiddish culture can tell you that part of their traditions includes smashing a glass under their shoe. This must be done safely, but can be a very fun and engaging part of the experience. This part of the tradition is so widely known by most people that Christians will generally accept it.

In order for everybody to have a good time at this ceremony, they will all need to feel respected and included on what's going on. A great way to do this while still upholding one of the treasured traditions of one of the families is in the reading of the ketubah. This is a great opportunity for respect to be paid to both of the families and their faiths, as well as for everyone to be assured of how difficulties and challenges will be dealt with as they come.




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