We've all been there.
We've been in a situation where our love is being abused, we feel horrible about ourselves and we know we should walk away from the person who is taking complete advantage of us but are finding it very hard to.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's an art to leaving people who have shown you disrespect and don't want to do anything to fix it.
On one hand you want to be close with as many potential people as you can and you reach out making an attempt to meets new friends. On the other hand you have this respect for yourself and pride in how you act.
This can be very difficult to do however.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This process isn't the easiest thing in the world but it is something you have to learn.
But what hurts more is staying in something and losing all sense of yourself and knowing you could have saved yourself months or even years earlier.
So have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, always know what you are worth and be willing to stand your ground.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
Never settle for a mediocre life. It's time to level up.
We've been in a situation where our love is being abused, we feel horrible about ourselves and we know we should walk away from the person who is taking complete advantage of us but are finding it very hard to.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's an art to leaving people who have shown you disrespect and don't want to do anything to fix it.
On one hand you want to be close with as many potential people as you can and you reach out making an attempt to meets new friends. On the other hand you have this respect for yourself and pride in how you act.
This can be very difficult to do however.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This process isn't the easiest thing in the world but it is something you have to learn.
But what hurts more is staying in something and losing all sense of yourself and knowing you could have saved yourself months or even years earlier.
So have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, always know what you are worth and be willing to stand your ground.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
Never settle for a mediocre life. It's time to level up.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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