Being aware of the processes in a marriage can help you realize which you and your partner have reached, helping explain what might seem to be strange in behavior. They can help in your journey to a healthy relationship; you can find 6 relationship stages, as follows:
The idealization stage
At this first stage each partner attempts get along and show only their best sides; you both are making as much as you can to make things work for you. At that point, neither person may have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both been on your best behavior! This is often a time for love, romance and sexual attraction!
The landing stage
At this stage each of you start observing the differences between the two individuals. Conflicts start arising but it surely is often handled fast. Within this stage, the partners either manage this or it will lead to breaking up.
The grinding stage
Both partners accept and appreciate each other's weaknesses; they avoid using of force and give up the mentality of love without struggle. This stage is all about the balance of "to give" and "to get".
Happy stage
At this stage the relationship survives the previous molding stage and each partner relax their boundaries and accept that they may never change the other partner. They start giving one another mutual respect in addition to a deeper love ensues.
The resurfacing stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
Trust stage
This is basically the final stage; your trust to each other at this moment becomes unbreakable. Couples begin working on projects together, and they also become a real team; this is certainly apparent for everybody around.
Imagine that you experience some difficulties at one of these stages.
Communication is a vital thing here. Pay attention to your second half; let him/her speak first without interrupting thus air out your issues. You recognize that may be sometimes you feel different and have different points of view on many things. Always try to find a way to understand your partner's point of view or opinion instead of trying to change him or her.
Hope it is more clear now what point your relationship are at, and when you do I'm sure this knowledge may help you find the best partner!
The idealization stage
At this first stage each partner attempts get along and show only their best sides; you both are making as much as you can to make things work for you. At that point, neither person may have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both been on your best behavior! This is often a time for love, romance and sexual attraction!
The landing stage
At this stage each of you start observing the differences between the two individuals. Conflicts start arising but it surely is often handled fast. Within this stage, the partners either manage this or it will lead to breaking up.
The grinding stage
Both partners accept and appreciate each other's weaknesses; they avoid using of force and give up the mentality of love without struggle. This stage is all about the balance of "to give" and "to get".
Happy stage
At this stage the relationship survives the previous molding stage and each partner relax their boundaries and accept that they may never change the other partner. They start giving one another mutual respect in addition to a deeper love ensues.
The resurfacing stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
Trust stage
This is basically the final stage; your trust to each other at this moment becomes unbreakable. Couples begin working on projects together, and they also become a real team; this is certainly apparent for everybody around.
Imagine that you experience some difficulties at one of these stages.
Communication is a vital thing here. Pay attention to your second half; let him/her speak first without interrupting thus air out your issues. You recognize that may be sometimes you feel different and have different points of view on many things. Always try to find a way to understand your partner's point of view or opinion instead of trying to change him or her.
Hope it is more clear now what point your relationship are at, and when you do I'm sure this knowledge may help you find the best partner!
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