Wednesday, 1 April 2015

Pointers In Dealing With Insecurities In A Relationship

By Iva Cannon


Things not usually done by people are shown when they are in love. Their romantic sides are shown and sweet gestures are being exhibited. Sweet words are even exchanged with their loved ones. Some quality time are wanted to be spent with these persons always.

However, several people are not experiencing complete happiness in their own partnerships. They are usually having insecurities. An individual can be following these tips in dealing with insecurities in a relationship.

People are interacting with their lovers in a different manner since different people are possessing various personalities. For this, the individual must not be comparing his current partnership with his past one. If his previous lover knows how to be cooking dishes, he should not be expecting the same with his current one. This way, he will not be disappointing himself.

Everyone has his or her own ideal partner. However, the person must not be looking for a perfect partnership. This type of partnership does not exist. The result of this situation depends on the amount of work both sides will be placing into their partnership. Both parties should be making compromises for them to be living harmoniously together.

In any partnership, communication is important. Communication should be clear between the individuals so that mind reading can be prevented. For instance, if stressful situations are experienced at their jobs and they do not like to be disturbed by their partners at certain times, such should be communicated. Their significant others should not be shout out. This way, negative assumptions will not be made by their partners.

The persons should focus on positive things and not the negative ones. They should see the good things that may happen on their lives. If they encounter hardships or difficulties, they should hope for good results afterwards. For instance, if their partners have jobs in other countries, they should think that after some time, they will come back and both of them can share the fruits of their labors.

Too much jealousy should be avoided so that their partnerships cannot be controlled by them. Their partners should be allowed to mingle with others, whether females or males. They should be given the freedom to have the movies chosen to be watched together, meals that could be eaten together, outfits should be worn during dates, and others.

The person must always be seeking self assurance. He must be depending on himself more. While it is true that he needs someone to cuddle or share passionate hugs with, or talk to romantically, he must not be depending on others. This situation will be making him clingy to his partner even if this partnership is not healthy at all.

Most importantly, he should be avoiding paranoia. Paranoia results from jealousy. He should not be assuming that his partner will be leaving him for another person. The individual must not be reading any cellphone or email message of his partner without permission. In this way, he could be respecting her privacy. In most cases, paranoids are only creating situations out of fear.




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