You have been in a relationship with your Hong Kong girl for couple of months. Things are going to the right direction. You also feel like she is the right one for you. Your friend might give you some advice about dating Asian girls before, but you don't have any problems about it.
One day your girlfriend comes to meet you and ask, "Baby, can you meet my parents next Sunday. They would like to see you". You have no idea what you should do. Also you might think who do I turn for help?
Actually, take a deep breath at first. It won't be that bad. You might have heard lots of myths and stories. The truth is your parents of your HK girlfriend are not that hard to please. What they want is the best for their daughter. To be frank, you might think they are money oriented, but they are just not that bad in most cases. What you need to do is to do some preparation and you will be great.
How to present yourself: You don't want to give a bad first impression, right? So follow this step by step. Clean and smart clothes are needed. If you don't have it, you should go shopping with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend's parents are likely to judge you based on your first impression.
Career: You should talk about your career and goals, more importantly, your ambitions to make money. I understand not everyone works as a doctor or lawyer. However, as long as you can present well and convince them you have a great career. You are going to the right direction.
Respect: You should show great respect for her parents. You don't need to agree with everything they say. But try to avoid some sensitive topics like politics and anything related to death. It will possibly ruin the whole atmosphere. It's very likely they will offer you some beer or wine. Remember do not drink too much. You don't want to say some stupid things.
It's very natural to feel nervous if it's the first time for you to meet your girl's parents. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have chances to see them in the future. Good luck for your first meeting.
One day your girlfriend comes to meet you and ask, "Baby, can you meet my parents next Sunday. They would like to see you". You have no idea what you should do. Also you might think who do I turn for help?
Actually, take a deep breath at first. It won't be that bad. You might have heard lots of myths and stories. The truth is your parents of your HK girlfriend are not that hard to please. What they want is the best for their daughter. To be frank, you might think they are money oriented, but they are just not that bad in most cases. What you need to do is to do some preparation and you will be great.
How to present yourself: You don't want to give a bad first impression, right? So follow this step by step. Clean and smart clothes are needed. If you don't have it, you should go shopping with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend's parents are likely to judge you based on your first impression.
Career: You should talk about your career and goals, more importantly, your ambitions to make money. I understand not everyone works as a doctor or lawyer. However, as long as you can present well and convince them you have a great career. You are going to the right direction.
Respect: You should show great respect for her parents. You don't need to agree with everything they say. But try to avoid some sensitive topics like politics and anything related to death. It will possibly ruin the whole atmosphere. It's very likely they will offer you some beer or wine. Remember do not drink too much. You don't want to say some stupid things.
It's very natural to feel nervous if it's the first time for you to meet your girl's parents. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have chances to see them in the future. Good luck for your first meeting.
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