Tuesday, 4 March 2014

The Impending Issue Of Male Wives

By Leticia Jensen


In the modern day society, there are dire alterations in the gender roles. The expectations of the society are not met anymore, given that there is such a great margin with which the people and times are changing. The changes are evident in various ways, presence of male wives being at the forefront. Gays have dominated globally, and people no longer find a problem with the same. This is where a man marries another, and one of them plays the role of a wife in their union. Also, we have instances where the husband and wife switch their roles such that each performs the tasks of the other.

This idea of reversing roles has and is being practiced in the whole world and the people have come to terms with them. Apparently several communities have embraced this idea, and now the woman is left to make some crucial decisions concerning the family, as though she is the head. On the other end the man makes himself busy with the house hold chores such as cooking, washing and dusting, taking care of the children and all the other activities performed by women.

Men are strong creatures. However, there are those that have secret desires to give their women authority that they care about. To many, it is an exercise to show true love they feel because they lack vocals to show it. For others, they choose to become so that the women feel adorable and trusted.

However much this may appear pleasant, it is also weird. The reason behind this is, it is basically abnormal for a man to stay back and watch the woman run the family affairs. At one time it will leave the woman wondering the kind of a man she got married to. The harder task of making decisions concerning the family will only be taken up by a woman with a domineering attitude, and they will see this coming from a distance. Much as it may sound good from one side, it is crucial that each party sticks to their roles.

In some instances, men who are victims to such are likely to get moody as they advance in age. This may happen because these men will be sensitive to things around them and as a result develop the moody attitude. In case of intimidation they will be driven by the feminism in them and end up letting them take the leadership roles.

The roles revolution is a kind of an intricate case. Should you think of getting involved in the same, it is important that you conduct a comprehensive research and clearly understand the objectives and intensions of undertaking the same as well as their intensions. Swapping roles may be a little tricky, and especially in the cases where children are involved. It may be hectic and annoying to handle kids and this may render the man gloomy and regretful.

For successful responsibility exchange, establish ample communication time with your partner. Get insights from reliable sources and review them with your partner. Identify the challenges you are bound to go through and lay down the possible remedies to the same.

It is usually advisable that the men network quite often. This way they are likely to encounter other men going through the same, and they could share insights and help one another, and eventually become outstanding in this field.




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