One of the best things you can do to attract women is to go out at night with a couple of your girl friends. If you are ever in the situation where a couple of your girl friends are going out but none of the boys are keen, I would definitely recommend going out with just the girls. Don't even think about it, just ask for the meeting time and place. You will honestly be blown away at just how much attention you will get from other women.This happened to me last Friday night. I have two really good girl friends who I have known for years who are also good friends with my mates. We often all hang out together but on this particular night, all the boys were busy. One of my mates was away for the weekend at a concert, another was sick, another had work etc etc. I was keen to go out after a long week so I called up the girls to see if they had any plans. It turned out that Jess and Rachael had planned pre-drinks at Rachael's house and they were going out afterwards. They asked if I wanted to join them. I was really keen to get out of the house on a Friday night so I went round to Rachael's house with a 6 pack of beers.
Men want to date women who can chill with the guys. If you're critical of the food, mean to the waitress, or uptight in any way, he'll conclude that you might be a drag around his boys. Not only is it a turnoff, he'll get crap from them about it, and he doesn't want that. Be sure to show off your easygoing attitude so he'll know his pals will totally dig your presence. I generally date women who make less money than me. I think the reason is I take my career very seriously. I know that sounds arrogant, but I'm a pretty driven guy, more driven than most men and women. That said, the girl I'm dating now makes more money than I do-a lot more! However, that's mainly because I'm starting my own company. We both know that over the long-term, I have the potential to make much more than she does.
We're dancing with our arms in the air and around each other. There are patches of girls scattered throughout the dance floor surrounded by the usual ring of guys. I exchange smiles with a cute girl dancing beside me and go to dance with her without any resistance. It was like she had spotted me and decided to come dance beside me. A little while later the same thing happens with yet another girl and another girl. "I must be on fire" I'm thinking because I'm hardly a good dancer. I go to get another drink with the girls and get a few glances as I'm walking up to the bar.
Why am I getting all this attention all of a sudden? The reason is simple. It's because I'm with the girls. I'm telling you, when you go out with a couple of your girl mates, it does wonders for your ability to attract other women. When women see that you are making your girls laugh and the girls are talking to you in a flirty way, women will respond. For a start you have prequalified - you have already proven that you are worthy of their attention, which is why you are more likely to get a positive response when approaching. And secondly, it shows value. You give off the perception of being a male in demand, a key quality of the alpha male. Women are instinctively attracted to a man who shows value.
Women on Facebook are bored out of their minds by the number of losers trying to pick them up with stupid pick up lines every single day of the week. Many of these hotties are afraid to even go online on the Chat since probably around fifty strangers (who she accepted since she thought they "might" be normal) will start sending her "hey, what's up?" messages. Then she'll have to ignore all of them, or give them a short, negative reply. Even after that, at least half of these guys won't get the message, and will keep on boring her out of her mind with stupid questions about irrelevant things.My friend, I hope you figured that this is not the right way to seduce girls on Facebook. "What is the right way, then?" - I can already hear you asking. BEFORE you can even mention meeting up with her, or asking for her number - you have to get her attracted to you. That's where 90% of guys mess up. They assume that just because she accepted your friends request, she'll want to go out with you - wrong. 90% mess things up because they try going further with a girl that they didn't attract yet. And what do they get? Rejected. What else.
Be funny - I can't stress how important this step is in starting or maintaining any relationship with a lady. Girls love to laugh and feel good about themselves, and the guy they are with, so mastering this art will greatly enhance your chances of keeping a girl's attention. Whether it's a corny joke, light sarcasm or simply an "at ease" style of conversation you develop, being funny is something worth practicing.Be casual - Although this can mean many things, ultimately it is how "smooth" you are in your look, your attitude and how you turn on conversational queues. Unforced conversation and body language shows that you have a casual attitude and also helps keep you relaxed. Forcing anything at this point can blow up an otherwise great opportunity with a lady!Be interested in her, not you - Assuming you've chosen to pursue a lady you are genuinely interested in, make sure to keep conversation about yourself to a minimum unless it involves a funny anecdote or a quick point you think might be interesting to her. Avoid telling the girl your entire philosophy on life within the first ten minutes of meeting her!Pay attention - On the heels of my last point, pay attention to the things she is saying about herself. This give you less chances of making mistakes and gives you information about her that you can use to relate to her. However, don't make the mistake of seeming like you are quizzing her as some ladies consider that a bit creepy!
One - Power. Show power. In everything you do. You are not a weak guy that will write stupid and boring statuses about how boring his job is and how unsatisfied you are. Don't whine, ever. Guys that whine are not powerful, and therefore not attractive. Your Facebook profile is like a menu - a hot girl can choose between a ton of different meals, why would she choose you? Think about it. Create value in your life, do something with yourself that will make you grow as a person. Build up some value and from then on everything will be easier. Since you will be worth more, you won't have a need to run after women and TRY to prove them how much you are worth. They'll feel it.Two - Social Proof. Yes, the more women are running after you, the more attractive you will appear on Facebook. So - get some traffic. You need to get some hot women liking your stuff, commenting on your stuff positively, writing something on your wall - and make you appear desired, wanted. Women often behave towards you how they believe other women behave towards you. So, if you create some "traffic" on your profile, you'll get a lot more women interested than if your profile looks dead. You have to be in demand.
Men want to date women who can chill with the guys. If you're critical of the food, mean to the waitress, or uptight in any way, he'll conclude that you might be a drag around his boys. Not only is it a turnoff, he'll get crap from them about it, and he doesn't want that. Be sure to show off your easygoing attitude so he'll know his pals will totally dig your presence. I generally date women who make less money than me. I think the reason is I take my career very seriously. I know that sounds arrogant, but I'm a pretty driven guy, more driven than most men and women. That said, the girl I'm dating now makes more money than I do-a lot more! However, that's mainly because I'm starting my own company. We both know that over the long-term, I have the potential to make much more than she does.
We're dancing with our arms in the air and around each other. There are patches of girls scattered throughout the dance floor surrounded by the usual ring of guys. I exchange smiles with a cute girl dancing beside me and go to dance with her without any resistance. It was like she had spotted me and decided to come dance beside me. A little while later the same thing happens with yet another girl and another girl. "I must be on fire" I'm thinking because I'm hardly a good dancer. I go to get another drink with the girls and get a few glances as I'm walking up to the bar.
Why am I getting all this attention all of a sudden? The reason is simple. It's because I'm with the girls. I'm telling you, when you go out with a couple of your girl mates, it does wonders for your ability to attract other women. When women see that you are making your girls laugh and the girls are talking to you in a flirty way, women will respond. For a start you have prequalified - you have already proven that you are worthy of their attention, which is why you are more likely to get a positive response when approaching. And secondly, it shows value. You give off the perception of being a male in demand, a key quality of the alpha male. Women are instinctively attracted to a man who shows value.
Women on Facebook are bored out of their minds by the number of losers trying to pick them up with stupid pick up lines every single day of the week. Many of these hotties are afraid to even go online on the Chat since probably around fifty strangers (who she accepted since she thought they "might" be normal) will start sending her "hey, what's up?" messages. Then she'll have to ignore all of them, or give them a short, negative reply. Even after that, at least half of these guys won't get the message, and will keep on boring her out of her mind with stupid questions about irrelevant things.My friend, I hope you figured that this is not the right way to seduce girls on Facebook. "What is the right way, then?" - I can already hear you asking. BEFORE you can even mention meeting up with her, or asking for her number - you have to get her attracted to you. That's where 90% of guys mess up. They assume that just because she accepted your friends request, she'll want to go out with you - wrong. 90% mess things up because they try going further with a girl that they didn't attract yet. And what do they get? Rejected. What else.
Be funny - I can't stress how important this step is in starting or maintaining any relationship with a lady. Girls love to laugh and feel good about themselves, and the guy they are with, so mastering this art will greatly enhance your chances of keeping a girl's attention. Whether it's a corny joke, light sarcasm or simply an "at ease" style of conversation you develop, being funny is something worth practicing.Be casual - Although this can mean many things, ultimately it is how "smooth" you are in your look, your attitude and how you turn on conversational queues. Unforced conversation and body language shows that you have a casual attitude and also helps keep you relaxed. Forcing anything at this point can blow up an otherwise great opportunity with a lady!Be interested in her, not you - Assuming you've chosen to pursue a lady you are genuinely interested in, make sure to keep conversation about yourself to a minimum unless it involves a funny anecdote or a quick point you think might be interesting to her. Avoid telling the girl your entire philosophy on life within the first ten minutes of meeting her!Pay attention - On the heels of my last point, pay attention to the things she is saying about herself. This give you less chances of making mistakes and gives you information about her that you can use to relate to her. However, don't make the mistake of seeming like you are quizzing her as some ladies consider that a bit creepy!
One - Power. Show power. In everything you do. You are not a weak guy that will write stupid and boring statuses about how boring his job is and how unsatisfied you are. Don't whine, ever. Guys that whine are not powerful, and therefore not attractive. Your Facebook profile is like a menu - a hot girl can choose between a ton of different meals, why would she choose you? Think about it. Create value in your life, do something with yourself that will make you grow as a person. Build up some value and from then on everything will be easier. Since you will be worth more, you won't have a need to run after women and TRY to prove them how much you are worth. They'll feel it.Two - Social Proof. Yes, the more women are running after you, the more attractive you will appear on Facebook. So - get some traffic. You need to get some hot women liking your stuff, commenting on your stuff positively, writing something on your wall - and make you appear desired, wanted. Women often behave towards you how they believe other women behave towards you. So, if you create some "traffic" on your profile, you'll get a lot more women interested than if your profile looks dead. You have to be in demand.
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