Wednesday, 31 July 2013

How To Get A Girl To Like You

By Antonio Clerk


For a lot of men, the very idea of being able to make a girl like them seems kind of like some secret skill that they just don't have a clue about. It doesn't have to be all that complicated, though. I get why it can seem that way at time, especially if you have listened to a lot of traditional dating advice that men get that always seems to be focused on buying her things and fawning over her as if she was perfect in every which way. All of those things are really ineffective and a lot of the time, detrimental if you really want to be able to make a woman like you.

So you need to be self confident if you want to have the winning ways with how to get a girl to like you. So in order to get a girl to you, you should always have a composed an a casual mindset. Moreover, you should not be too desperate towards one girl. If she likes you in general, that is always a plus. But if she does not like you, always try to move on and find someone better. There are plenty of nice girls in this world. So, you should not stick around the same girl.

Flirting is supposed to be a fun thing to do, but the way that a lot of men go about it, they suck all of the fun right out of it. When you put a lot of pressure on yourself when flirting with a woman, you are almost always guaranteed that you are going to be taking the fun out of the experience. Lighten up and have some fun when you are flirting with her.

Girls are social beings - if you want to know another great tip on how to get a girl to like you, be social. If you are trying to impress a girl show her that you are social and she won't get bored being around you. She needs to know that she will have a great time meeting your friends or her friends while the two of you start dating.

We've all been frustrated when a meet that ONE girl that drives us nuts. She's just so hot, funny, charming, and sexy that we just can't contain ourselves. Yup, I often just don't know what to do. Having dealt with this so many times I made a promise to myself I would find a proven way to get girls to like me. I'm not claiming to be a dating guru or player but here's the good news. These techniques work for everybody so you won't have to wonder about how to get a girl to like you!

It's not always as easy as some people think, but it's usually never as hard as people try to make it sound. You just have to repeat a method a few times, and you will probably find success. But don't get ahead of yourself. You can't fight human nature. So you have to find things that work towards your advantage.

If you want to get a girl to like you, meet as many women as you can. You see, the more women you meet, the greater your social circle will be. Meeting and dating as many women as possible will increase your odds of finding the perfect match and sends a message to other women that you are an object of desire. The last thing you want to go through is "GOD, I must have this girl. You'll find a girl to like you if you keep your options open. Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction! Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? Make sense? Ok, good.

The problem with many guys is they don't have enough girls to even show interest. Another common problem is they refuse to change. In either case, the solution is the same, approach and talk to lots of girls until you are more comfortable, and you can measure what tends to work more often then not in getting a girl interested in you. Once a girl shows interest then you can get their number and start doing the things they like doing with them. Even if it's not with the girl you want to like you, you have to learn to practice, practice, and practice some more. Figure out what makes girls feel good (laugh), and what doesn't, and at what stages. You need to actually practice getting girls interest and attention, and that may mean failing a few times.

Use good hygiene to get a girl to like you. Why do you think we like girls? Because they dress sexy and they are hot! Duh! So, if you look like you crawled out of a toilet your not going to within get 10 feet of a girl! Take a shower, trim your nails, and brush you teeth. One of the biggest secrets I discovered in recent years has been attracting powers of pheromones. What are they? Pheromones are natural chemicals released by the body to illicit a sexual response in the opposite sex.

Be a good listener. Often a girl likes to sit and talk, not necessarily communicate, just talk. A girl likes a guy who will sometimes just listen to her thoughts, her day, and her dreams. Caution: when a girl talks about her problems, it does NOT mean she wants you to solve them, she just wants you listen and empathize with her. She is not looking for advice or solutions; she just wants to share with you what is going on in her life. (Refer to tip number one).In summary: a girl likes someone who will listen, is attentive, is a good listener, is sensitive, and quiet. Therefore the answer to the puzzle: "How to get a girl to like you" is to be a girl, or at least be able to think like one. If all else fails, just being there to give her a hug when she needs one, and she will think you are the best guy in the world.




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