Friday 27 July 2018

Continuous Restlessness Among Relationships In Families

By Jeffrey Jones


Earlier marriages used to be arranged by the family members. Departing after marriage was considered to be a taboo in the society. Due to this the couple learnt to live in disagreement and unhappiness throughout their life. People were not aware of the reasons behind separation. Today therapists have identified the divorce warning signs.

The powerful emotion humans can experience is love. Partners do not think deep about affection when there is a continuous giving and receiving from each another. Only when there is something lacking in relationships people ponder. But by the time they realize it becomes too late to save the relationship.

Culture plays a great role in protecting a marriage or a relationship. It would be better if a person falls in love with the partner in the same ethnicity so that it would be easy to adjust along. Most issues occur due to cultural indifferences. People marrying in different cultures like a rich and poor family find it difficult to cope as time passes.

Violence is not a social behavior. This is a psychological problem. Showing aggression against our loved ones does not bring peace or try to solve the issue. This actually makes matter worst. A decision taken in anger is never appropriate. A couple should openly communicate to each other for any disagreement which will help in improving the relationship. Reasons are many, why couples choose to separate is the changes in life like redundancy, retirement, bereavement, abandoning of one partner, children leaving home, violence, sexual abuse etc.

Violence in families creates criminal tendencies in children, which can affect them in afterward. This also encourage anger, disobedience, fear, not studying, suicides, sexual abusing of friends, which later can take them to prison. Depression, anxiety and other mental stress or disorders are part and parcel of impact of violence and divorce in families.

Unemployment plays a big role in divorce. A huge challenge a relationship can face is one of the partners losing their job. This creates humiliation, frustration, fear, and despair among the couples. This can put marriages under tremendous strain. May be for the first three months things would go without any serious issues and after that if any one of them is not able to find a job things go wrong in the family.

Younger couples might think of leaving their responsibilities to their partners and opt to take a stress free life. Debt is another big reason for marital issues which fuels to separation. Overdue relate to poverty and as couples do not pay their dues and goes for taking new loans, the marital happiness ends and this is a start of problems in their relationship.

The divorce without a mutual consent where one partner opposes for separation. The reasons coming under this are cruelty, mental disorder, communicable disease, adultery, desertion etc. Also court and lawyer charges are involved in it which should be paid by both parties. This type of cases require huge amount of settlement.

When the couples feel that their relationship is not going smoothly they should sit together and work out solutions. One should listen to their partners concerns and should help the person by giving suggestions or ideas to sort it off. At the same time the other partner also need to convey personal feelings for getting into a mutual understanding.




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