Wednesday 12 July 2017

How To Find A Spouse For Single Muslims

By John Collins


While marriage is such an important aspect of the Islamic faith, and all believers are expected to fulfill this act. Many single Muslims are struggling to find the right person to commit to marriage with. Causes of this might be due to few potential partners. And also considering marriage is not an easy thing, most people tend to take their time before indulging.

Show respect. Be a respectful person. Let it be seen in how you respond, interrupt and listen to your partner talk. Do not despise someone even when you know for sure they are not your type. If you are meeting with them, be lively in every conversation and get to know them. Compliment on their looks and dressing if possible. Make them feel good about themselves.

Join different groups in your community. Could be humanitarian aid societies, volunteer work or charities. These are good places to meet people your age whom you have something in common from the word go. Make an effort of getting into conversations and fun activities carried out in the group. Someone might like you in the process, no one knows.

Avoid being hasty. Take as much time as you can in examining a potential partner. Marriage is not something that you can get into with anyone. Careful consideration is to be done before committing to life in marriage, or things could go wrong for you. Repairing that damage can be almost impossible. So be patient and get the right person.

Do not do it alone. Getting help from someone else on such matters of marriage is inevitable. Mostly involve your parents in your quest. Let them know your intentions and the type of person you are looking for. They might drop a few clues for you to look into, which will go a long way in helping you find a partner.

Go online. Find a good Muslim dating site on the internet. Create an account with them. Make sure to update your profile with a good-looking photo, your values, the kind of person you are and the type of person you would like to get into a relationship with. Be engaging and active. Going online is an easy way to meet with potential partners.

Chaperoned meetings. As a good Muslim, ensure you avoid meeting in secluded places alone. Find someone you trust to be your chaperone. Talk to the person you are meeting the person you prefer as a chaperone. This helps in ensuring that nothing goes wrong during the meeting and keeps you from engaging in sinful acts.

Given the importance of marriage, singles should be strong and aggressive in their pursuit of a marriage partner. By following the advice above they can go a long way in getting themselves a partner for life. Remember it is important to be prepared for marriage mentally even as you go about seeking for a partner. Marriage is no joke, and it requires someone who is prepared and is well aware of what they are getting into. Pray to Allah for strength and guidance.




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