Stop searching for your other half.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
As life continuously morphs and changes, we have to deal with the inevitable fact that we are going to lose our relationships over time. We are going to struggle to handle the grief that comes along with losing people we care about. But when we are whole people, those who constantly grow and develop as individuals, we can show up in a relationship with another person and giving them our best without expecting them to give theirs.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
As life continuously morphs and changes, we have to deal with the inevitable fact that we are going to lose our relationships over time. We are going to struggle to handle the grief that comes along with losing people we care about. But when we are whole people, those who constantly grow and develop as individuals, we can show up in a relationship with another person and giving them our best without expecting them to give theirs.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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