By definition, divorce is simply the termination of a marriage, whereby the bonds of matrimony between married couples are dissolved, making them two separate individuals. It is usually done under divorce laws which vary according to the state in which they are applied. Everyone has their own view of this process and below is a male perspective on divorce.
To begin with, these species of individuals are very different in the way they think. Some view separation as a way out of a collapsing union. Staying in a bid to try and save the partnership is never an option for them as they term this as time consuming and an unnecessary process.
To others, family comes first. The idea of them having their children being raised by single parents drives them insane and they make a decision to stay no matter what challenges they face. The love of their little ones leads them to view separation as a vice which should be done away with as it torture the people they cared deeply about.
Divorce is a social norm. It is also against the faith which most people live by and this is what makes the religious type opt to stay in their marriage. It is based on what they believe in and what they have been taught to be right or wrong. This means that no matter the situation, they always bear in mind that there is a silver lining at the end of the tunnel.
Research has brought to light the fact that any man who truly loved his wife and had to experience separation from her suffered a great deal of loss. It is just like when a person is dead as they are no longer in ones life anymore. Moving on has proved to be very hard especially for those who are fresh from a long term union.
The length of time taken to heal varies from one man to the next. For some, especially those who were not serious with this affair, they take a short period of time as within no time, they are back on the game again as though nothing ever happened. For others, this struck them very hard hence they have to take time to grieve until they can be able to get back on their feet one more time.
Todays laws have made the divorce process very lengthy and tiring. A lot of money is lost in the process and in the event that the issues are many, the court processes take longer than usual which means that extra money has to be spent. Other expenses include child support, custody and also the law stipulates that they are supposed to meet the financial needs of their spouses.
In conclusion, each man has his own take on this matter, for some, it is usually worth the hustle while others are completely against it. Whatever side one takes, they should be aware of the fact that no one will judge them as the wearer of the shoe knows how best it feels and every other situation is different.
To begin with, these species of individuals are very different in the way they think. Some view separation as a way out of a collapsing union. Staying in a bid to try and save the partnership is never an option for them as they term this as time consuming and an unnecessary process.
To others, family comes first. The idea of them having their children being raised by single parents drives them insane and they make a decision to stay no matter what challenges they face. The love of their little ones leads them to view separation as a vice which should be done away with as it torture the people they cared deeply about.
Divorce is a social norm. It is also against the faith which most people live by and this is what makes the religious type opt to stay in their marriage. It is based on what they believe in and what they have been taught to be right or wrong. This means that no matter the situation, they always bear in mind that there is a silver lining at the end of the tunnel.
Research has brought to light the fact that any man who truly loved his wife and had to experience separation from her suffered a great deal of loss. It is just like when a person is dead as they are no longer in ones life anymore. Moving on has proved to be very hard especially for those who are fresh from a long term union.
The length of time taken to heal varies from one man to the next. For some, especially those who were not serious with this affair, they take a short period of time as within no time, they are back on the game again as though nothing ever happened. For others, this struck them very hard hence they have to take time to grieve until they can be able to get back on their feet one more time.
Todays laws have made the divorce process very lengthy and tiring. A lot of money is lost in the process and in the event that the issues are many, the court processes take longer than usual which means that extra money has to be spent. Other expenses include child support, custody and also the law stipulates that they are supposed to meet the financial needs of their spouses.
In conclusion, each man has his own take on this matter, for some, it is usually worth the hustle while others are completely against it. Whatever side one takes, they should be aware of the fact that no one will judge them as the wearer of the shoe knows how best it feels and every other situation is different.
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