Wednesday 16 April 2014

Learn About The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is a skill that some people are naturally good at while others have to practice and work at it in order to perfect the skill. With the art of flirting, one has to overcome the conditioning that creates the assumption that strangers are dangerous; in fact, it is said that they beauty of flirting within the anonymity of the random person one chooses to flirt with especially if they are strangers.

For people who are not comfortable with the idea of approaching people confidently, one has to practice this art by trying as much as possible to approach random people and try to make a conversation. This way, one prepares themselves for meeting the right person because there is no damage done when one makes the fool out of themselves since one may probably never meet this person again.

By doing more practice one get better at this by being more comfortable and figures out what works for them and more so how to take a beating of their ego as one is bound to rejections. As time goes by, one gets comfortable practicing it with random stranger which shows one can move to the next step that involves semi-strangers and move on as confidence to approach the people they like is gathered.

In this game there are those that may seem intimidating which bring the fear of approaching them; in this case, one should assume that their target is waiting for them to go ahead which is probably the case most of the times. For those that have gone through the exchanging numbers part and maybe even saliva, it usually is easier as they have more confidence to withstand rejection.

Flirting starts with the eyes, and then the mouth and a little bit of shyness and coyness especially for women. This is different for men and women as women are allowed to act shy while men on the other hand are expected to be confident. Over time, this art has evolved as men are not the only ones who do the approaching as women are now approaching men and even asking for their numbers.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

This art takes a cycle whereby one starts by hinting their target with eye gestures, then a smile accompanied with body language which should be an indication that it is the right time to go t the target. In addition to this, being able to ignite a conversation is critical as having a conversation that is flowing makes the time enjoyable giving room to make an advance to break the touch barrier.

There are certain rules of the game that one should consider for a successful flirting moment and still make it interesting. As hard as it might be, leaving when the conversation gets juicy is the best move to make if you are anticipating for a second date. This is because you will leave them at a good note and at a suspense whereby they would like to meet again and continue from where you left.




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