Monday 8 July 2013

Will You Ever Find Love Again After Breaking Up With Her

By Victoria W. McCurdy


Will I ever find love? And why can't I find love? Are perhaps two of the most commonly asked questions by human beings not already in a loving and nurturing relationship. Here is where you can ultimately answer both questions.Many people in life are either unaware or choose not to believe the power of manifestation and also the way our brain works. You may have heard "You are the sum total of your beliefs" or "Whatever you focus consciously on or regularly think about, positive or negative, is what you experience in life." or perhaps some other variation of these common statements.

You can find it again, trust me on that one. I know, it may not seem that way right now, but you will be able to find a woman to love again. What you first have to do is to get over the pain that you are feeling right now over the woman you have lost. You have to remind yourself that all it really means is that you are no longer with someone with whom you can't make a relationship work and if you learn the right attraction skills, you can replace her with someone who is better for you in the long run.

That doesn't always mean that it is going to be easy. It doesn't mean that you are going to just forget about her or that you are not going to have moments where you feel like you want her back in your life. All it means is that you have to keep your eyes on the reality that you can find someone else.

Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.

All the crazy, unattractive, messed up, still living with their parents at 35, no job, mean spirited, buck toothed, long working hours, stuttering people and worse that have found love, have done so because they loved themselves and opened themselves up fully to the power of being loved.This one magical state attracts love like you could never believe! Love is attracted to love. At our most primal level, we know in our hearts that once you are tuned in to your own ability to feel positively toward others, you will find someone special. This creates an intimate connection with the rest of the human race that allows and sometimes beckons others to gravitate toward us.

Anyone can find someone to fulfill them, someone they can call their soulmate. Its great that you want to find someone. Believe it or not but some of us in the world like to be alone. There are people who see friends and family as being weak. They think everyone around them only wants to hurt them, and so they live alone and fun by themselves.Some people just hate companionship, which is alright. Its their life and they can live it the way they want to. If you're someone asking "will I ever find love?" then the first thing you need to do that is to have the ability to take chances.Take a chance to speak to people, just start talking to people. Love is built through communication and with that said, how will you ever fall in love with someone if you don't start meeting people. Every time you walk outside there are people who you can talk to.

There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.




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