Thursday 23 May 2013

First time chat with women isn't so tough!!

By Stephan Boylen


Guys all over the world are thought to be powerful and confident. They're considered to be exceptional in almost all aspects. Pose a question to them and they are likely to have an answer. But there are a number of questions and areas where even men are short of words. Ask any guy a question, "if there's anything difficult for you what would that be" and make certain that most guys wouldn't have the capacity to answer to this, especially if it's related to having issues with hitting a dialog with girls. Guys would rather die than admit the truth. They try to pretend to be great in the presence of others. There are numerous ways to begin a conversation with a girl. Still men goof up and make grave faults. This most often makes them cut a sorry figure. So what is actually the best approach to begin a conversation using a girl?

Rule No 1: Do not strive to be over clever aka overconfident. Being over confident will definitely will not work out with women as they utterly dislike that. In case you follow this rule, it will prevent you from giving away the actual purpose behind your dialogue unknowingly. Remember that almost all girls hate when you are planning to flirt with her. So if you shouldn't be overconfident, then the way to get into the chat though? Talk about girlish subjects. Pick issues which make girls free to go to town. You can hear them for few minutes so you can slowly get to the conversation. In case you follow this rule there is very little possibility of being rejected. So guys who fear of rejection should truly stick to this rule.

The second tip on to begin a dialogue with a girl is by starting with direct conversations or opener. This technique could be employed by men who are assured--but not too over confident--and isn't afraid to be rejected since it is a technique which will enable the man to begin by saying directly what he wants. The good thing about this method is that the girl will immediately know the intention of the man. The thing is, there is also a greater risk with employing this, but in the long run, if you both are in the same page, the risk that you have taken will still be worth in the long run. As what the expression goes, "with great hazards also comes a great reward."

The following approach is more direct where you don't use indirect cues. This is often used by men who are not scared of rejection. This method may be utilized by guys who are confident and not scared by the chance of getting rejected. Within this approach the man will not mask his purposes and directly speaks to the woman. This aids to make things clear at the first stages itself and the girl too has a clarity regarding the purpose of the guy. Although there's a greater risk in this however the best thing is that eventually you both are on the same wavelength, so this is a risk that's actually worth taking. However at no point should you hurt the self respect of the woman. Be discrete and attempt to woo and impress her with your design and elegance.

Lastly you can try out situational conversations to start up a conversation. This sort of conversation gives you considerable range to reveal your funny side and make use of laughter to bond. Just in case a girl unexpectedly cuts the line ahead of you then this gives you a good chance to begin a conversation with her. The wait will certainly provide you with a chance to mingle in a friendly way and have light undertones of flirtations. If you wish to begin a text conversation with a girl, never assume that she is free. You should verify this with her and then proceed with the dialogue. It's ideal to send her a text once and then wait till she replies. This will set the tempo for the remainder which will absolutely follow if you create the right moves.

So, what are you waiting for, sugar? Go on... you understand how to begin a conversation with a girl, so go on and talk your way into that cute girl's heart. But use these suggestions on the best way to talk to a girl to create the perfect impression.




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