Friday 25 January 2013

You Are What You Think You Are

By Larry D. Holder


"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." Helen KellerLife is never a joyride. It is a mixture of bitterness, anger, sweet, and sour feelings. Every day is a new beginning, with new challenges, new hopes, new ideas etc... , all of which can be conquered by being optimistic.

Do you want to set and achieve goals, train your mind, sharpen your mental imagination, transform your self-image, direct your thoughts and develop the mental strength needed to create the path to our dreams. If the answer is yes then the first thing you need to do is to cultivate a positive attitude.

Negative thoughts and attitude bring up negative and unhappy moods and actions.Optimism consists of three major components: first, the belief in your own power to make a successful life; second, the belief that negative events in life are temporary; and third the belief that positive events in life are permanent.

The power of positive thinking is an incredible gift that will put your life and challenges into perspective because it will reduce stress. Life will definitely throw some curveballs but hitting that home run is worth it. So, the next time you find yourself struggling to bring a touch of positive thinking into a particular situation, try the following methods:

This statement of Swami Vivekanand has great meaning and it can really have a huge impact on our life. We most of the time knowingly or unknowingly decides who are we going to be. Those who understand this early, they are the ones wholl reap the benefits of Positive thinking.Having faith and belief in self is an important trait in one's personality. Willingness to work hard, acceptance of weaknesses and striving to correct them is what we need to lead a successful life.If you really want to change your mindset then for a start, try avoiding negativity and focus on the positive things. Always appreciate what you have got rather than what you haven't. After practicing this for a few days, you will have a much better attitude and outlook toward life.

Past regrets and future worries are the reason for fear and insecurities to arise. Past is history and shaping future is in your hand. Present is what we have so we must make the maximum utilization of it. Take every hardship as a challenge and take this as an opportunity to show that you can go to any extent to achieve your goals. Develop a healthy eating, stress free life, and get a good sleep. Be content, natural, and happy with what you are and what you have.

Almost everybody agrees that thinking positively is one of the keys to being successful, this is why it is so frequently offered as advice to people. The problem is that it is not nearly as easy to think positively as a lot of people imagine, if it were everybody would be happy and successful. Learning how to have positive thoughts is a skill that has to be learned, the following tips should help you to get started.

Shift your mental focus into positivity. Be happy for the person who is experiencing what you want to experience. This mental action proclaims "yes" to the universe, "I do want this!" and it will come to you. Thinking of why you "can't" have something or feeling jealous of others only says NO to the universe. You are asking for what you are focusing on and feeling about. So if you feel unattractive and over-weight when you see someone who is fit, the command you are giving to the law of attraction is, "I do not want to be fit, I would rather feel unattractive and over-weight"! The power of positive thinking is in this life-changing understanding. If you simply think only of what you want, in ways that produce positive feelings, you will have all that you wish for.

Another way to have positive thoughts is to learn about other successful people. This can be done in any number of ways but the most common are to read biographies of them or to watch television shows about them. When you see that other people have had success it will make it a lot easier for you to believe that you can do the same thing. Their success does not even have to be in the same field you are pursuing, it is enough to see other people who have succeeded.

We have talked about the past and the present, now let's talk about creating a positive future. Make a to do list, write about the small things you need to do and also the big things that you eventually want to get done. Give yourself timescales but make them realistic so you are not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. Tick them off one by one when they are completed and then be proud of yourself for getting them done.Look after your health, keep your home environment clean and tidy, do your job to the best of your ability and be kind and grateful to others. Consider anything that no longer makes you happy and make the positive steps to changing it. Psychic guidance can help you focus and create your future, showing you the steps that you need to take to building a happy life for yourself and those around you.Positive thinking is like a plant, the more you feed it, the more it flourishes. Negative thinking is exactly the same, only far less enjoyable... So act now.




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